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Ten Commandments of Expressing Views


entry info: But That's Just Me | Writing and Reading | 2007-04-04 | 15 Comments »

Below are my personal commandments in expressing views. A checklist for me to avoid controversies and continue to live young, beautiful and stress-free. Haha.

01 In the absence of proof, I am probably wrong. So don’t assume.
02 Dualism excludes, pluralism includes. Be conscious of being pluralistic.
03 I am responsible for what I say and do.
04 But I can’t force people to take responsibility for what they say and do.
05 Perfection is not possible nor desirable. Respect individual differences.
06 Share with those who are interested; Don’t justify nor proselytize.
07 I chose what I tolerate and what I protest.

08 Most of the time, your own opinion doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think it does. So yeah… careful. Don’t insist.

09 Coz hey, Like they care? Seriously? Not.

10 And oh lastly, always activate the unbloggable filter.

15 Comments

  1. ApplesH said,

    Liz
    - Right on target! I have a similar list in my mind but you have voiced it out excellently. Cheers!

  2. Anie said,

    Well said! A positive Blogirl, you deserve the award! An inspiration for filipino women.

  3. jozzua said,

    Nice!

  4. Post-Blog-Awards-Night Post | taintedsong v6 said,

    [...] I expected something like this would happen.. That’s just how it is. As Liz mentioned, Perfection is not possible nor desirable. Respect individual differences. In other words, you can’t please everybody. That’s something even I myself has proven [...]

  5. Shari said,

    Right on target.

    Ouch! LOL!

  6. jeniffer said,

    pahabol lang, just want to congratz you for winning phil.blog awards.. :) cheers.. u deserve anyway.. ;)

  7. noemi said,

    sometimes it’s best to let it go. Don’t assume. You’re right on target.

  8. liz said,

    thanks everyone! enjoy the holidays!

  9. Mae said,

    oo nga korek, korek! :)

  10. mats said,

    wow! nice! very true :)
    congrats din pala!

    and, i don’t assume too.. coz i don’t want to make an ASS between U and ME… (assume right?)

    keep it up girl! :)

  11. PinoyBlogosphere.Com said,

    amen! :)

    blog hoppin’

  12. PinoyBlurker » Blog Archive » links for 2007-04-07 said,

    [...] isn’t on the label [...]

  13. Frank A Hilario said,

    Belated congratulations, Blogirl! You are indeed an inspiration – Globe knows while the rest don’t. One of these days, I’d like to interview you and write a feature article, which should be good enough for American Chronicle.

  14. aveleen said,

    yup. true. do not assume.
    assume makes an ASS of U and ME.
    =)

  15. 2007, a female year | Filipina Designer & Blogger said,

    [...] Paypal, Eon. 04 The season of memes’. 05 Blogging controversial issues, silent gaps, changes and indifferences. 06 Events, gimiks, vertical horizon concert, movies. 07 Favorite month of blog [...]

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