Three reasons why I’m marrying him:

Because he can always tell what will I say next, how will I feel and can always finish my sentences. Because it was him who I saw in my dreams when I was just a kid…someone who can dance, groove and sing with me in his own silly way.

Because of his great faith to God and love for his family. And the fact that I can no longer count the times he treated a meal or bought some food for every old beggar we met down the road.

Because of his perfect formula of mixing patience, love, warmness with sarcastic humor, crazy oc-ness and habit of insisting his opinions – which makes me laugh, get pikon and cry sometimes – but never stops me from holding on and loving him more each day.

And it’s three days to go and I’ll be marrying him.

…days to go!

And things are getting crazy each day. Long to-do list, overloaded weekends, conflict schedules, glitches and more glitches. But surprisingly, this month started positively by simply letting perfections go, no expectations and just enjoy the smooth ride of journey to days ahead.

The place where we we had our photo shoots wasn’t really the one that we like plus it was also raining so hard that day but hey hey – it turned out fine and the pics are really beautiful…we love it. It’s so us! We don’t even have any theme at all – simply us living, loving and treating each day as a brand new special day.

Last weekend, we had the most crazy overloaded schedule ever. Totally windang. Saturday was spent going to the paper supplier because we ran out of boards that we need and then finding a binder supplier, hubby to be’s suit measurement, bought father’s attire, canvassing some stuff and boyfriend’s shopping for his pre-nup photo shoot getup. And then Sunday was consist of prenup photo shoot part 2, couture visit for gown fittings, bonding with college friends to commemorate friend’s death anniversary and attended a sponsored free grand bridal shower party (fashion show, cocktails and calendar boys) with girl friends. All of these happened in two consecutive days! (and waking up early for my 6a.m work)

(As a result, early night yesterday – I fell asleep in my office clothes, no dinner, no shower, nagtanggal lang ng shoes – as in bagsak sa higaan and I think I heard myself snoring. Haha, spell exhausted.)

Fun aside, we also have our share of bad moods, arguments, long crying nights due to stress and funny chronicles arguing about details. When we started wedding planning, I used to think that I’ll be the OC one but I was wrong!

Sure – I have myriad ideas, concepts, I read a lot, write a blog, keep an organizer but at the end of the day – well I am still the same and will always be Miss Whatever Girl…haha. Why, because I realized that I’m such a whatever-bride and he’s such an OC groom! I’m like- pwede na yan, ok na toh. and he’s like – dapat ganito, mas ok ganyan. :p at dahil dyan lalo akong na-stress lolz.

me: this is okay na. pwede na to. minimal lang and modern design.
him: mas okay ata yung may wave tapos may cut dito, dyan.
me: hala.

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me: pwede na cguro itong flat na ganito, matatakpan naman eh,
him: Hindi, dapat bilog. parang ganyan o maganda kaya.
me: hala, waa.

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me: haha ano kaya itsura ng damit ko.
him: sinabi ko naman sayo i-research mo ng maayos ang beads nyan kung paano baka magsisi ka after, tsaka yung ano, ganito, ganyan…

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me: ay oo yung mini candles na lang.
him: maganda ata yung parang may fluid o oil ba yun, etc.

Naman, naman. Crazy :)) but I love each moment of it…one month to go and I’m sure I will miss this one whole year of happy, stressful crazy wedding planning.

P.S LOL.

Sa one year na plano, 10 months naglista, isip, lista, puro lista…2 months lang operation.
- best friend